First the clarification.
A lot of what I write is food for thought. I don't claim or particularly care to be the authority on any specific topic. But I do love to offer reflections, write about possibilities, and pose interesting questions. Hopefully I discover and share some insights in the process.
That said, a request.
Jason Corsello mentioned the story of Randy Paush in a recent post. Randy is a Carnegie Mellon Professor, a well-known personality in the field of Virtual Reality, and also young and dying of pancreatic cancer.
Though I'm not generally drawn to human interest pieces, I decided to check out Randy's "Final Lecture" on YouTube. After just a few minutes I was totally hooked. I ended up watching the full 90 minute lecture.
One of Randy's lessons learned was to get a feedback loop and listen to it.
He tells the following story about a football coach he once had…
"There was one practice where he just rode me all practice. You're doing this wrong, you're doing this wrong, go back and do it again, you owe me, you're doing push-ups after practice. And when it was all over, one of the other assistant coaches came over and said, yeah, Coach Graham rode you pretty hard, didn't he? I said, yeah. He said, that's a good thing. He said, when you're screwing up and nobody's saying anything to you anymore, that means they gave up. And that's a lesson that stuck with me my whole life. Is that when you see yourself doing something badly and nobody's bothering to tell you anymore, that's a very bad place to be. Your critics are your ones telling you they still love you and care."
It's great advice and a reminder to me to ask you for your feedback
If you read my blog and have an objection, a thought to add, or want to offer a clarification of your own, please do!
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I want to hear and learn from you, I promise to listen, and I'll try to make it as easy as possible for you to share.
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